Your comfort zone is an enemy of your future. . .a hindrance to your success. . .a stumbling block to your destiny.
If you stay in your comfort zone. . .you will never leave nor surpass your current reality.
Here are seven ways to get out of your comfort zone.
1. Realize Why You Are. . .Where You Are
If you’re working the same job. . .in the same position you were ten years ago. . .if you’re still paying off the same debts. . .it’s time for some self-examination on your part.
“We cannot become what we want to be by remaining what we are.” Max DePree
You’ve got to know why you are. . .where you are.
Is it fear? Is it a desire to be comfortable in your surroundings and in the things you do on a daily basis?
If you don’t like where you are … why in the world would you want to continue living where you are?
Some people continue to live in their comfort zone because of laziness.
Understand this God doesn’t do laziness.
2 Thessalonians 3:6-7 in The Living Bible says:
“Now here is a command, dear brothers, given in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ by his authority: Stay away from any Christian who spends his days in laziness and does “not follow the ideal of hard work we set up for you.”
2 Thessalonians 3:11 in The Living Bible says:
“Yet we hear that some of you are living in laziness, refusing to work, and wasting your time in gossiping.”
Never be too lazy to read a book… increasing your knowledge and value in the marketplace and every other place.
Some people justify their residence in their comfort zone by excuses.
If there is one thing God dislikes more than laziness. . . its excuses.
Excuses by their nature imply limitations or an inability to break through the barriers of life. God does not impose any limitations on us. . .except that we obey His instructions.
And those are not really limitations… they are guidelines for success.
Sadly, many of the imagined limitations are self-imposed.
Proverbs 22:13 in The Living Bible says:
“The lazy man is full of excuses. "I can't go to work!" he says. "If I go outside, I might meet a lion in the street and be killed!"
Romans 3:19 in the Amplified Bible says;
“Now we know that whatever the Law says, it speaks to those who are under the Law, so that [the murmurs and excuses of] every mouth may be hushed and all the world may be held accountable to God.”
Regardless of why you are. . .where you are. . .once you realize you’re accountable to God. . .I’d say it’s time to pack your bags and leave your comfort zone whether it’s a five-star resort or not.
2. Let Go Of What’s Holding You Back
If you don’t face your fears. . .they will keep growing.
If you don’t face what you perceive to be your inadequacies . . .they’ll be magnified.
If you’re wondering what people will think if you fail in your new endeavor. . .you’re worried about the wrong person.
You need to be more concerned about what God thinks than anybody else in your hood.
Mark 7:8-10 in the New International Version says:
“You have let go of the commands of God and are holding on to the traditions of men." And he said to them: "You have a fine way of setting aside the commands of God in order to observe your own traditions!”
There comes a point. . .a time when you have to realize that what you’ve been doing is not working. . .and you need to let go. . .shake up. . .change what you’ve been doing and do something else.
3. Try Something New. . .Forget Old, Borrowed And Blue
In the Star Trek TV series and movies. . .it was always said that the starship. . . Enterprise, was going where no man had ever gone before.
It’s time to forget the way things used to be done. . .or have never been done.
If you limit your future because of your past. . .you’ll always be blue. In fact, I could make that into a country and western song.
In fact, I started to write the lyrics to a country and western song about being blue but I decided to Google the following. . .“country and western song with the word “blue.”
It seems somebody asked that same question some years ago. . .and they provided a link to a Leah Ann Rimes song entitled “Blue.”
I listened to thirty seconds and decided to abandon my thought of writing the perfect country and western song about being blue.
One other thing is required for you to move out of your comfort zone. You have to stop looking in the rearview mirror of your life. . .at what was or could have been.
On January 12, 2010. . .eight years aog. . I was inspired of the Holy Spirit to write a teaching entitled “Stop Looking In Your Rearview Mirror.” Truthfully, God gave me such an anointed teaching that I even took notes on it myself.
There is one particular scripture in that teaching I want to share with you.
Luke 9:62 in the New Century Version says:
“Jesus said, "Anyone who begins to plow a field but keeps looking back is of no use in the kingdom of God."
Some folks never move out of their comfort zone. . .because of sins in their past. If that’s you. . .this next scripture is going make you shout. . .and buy a ticket straight out of your past.
Isaiah 43:25 in the Amplified Bible says:
“I, even I, am He Who blots out and cancels your transgressions, for My own sake, and I will not remember your sins.”
The Message Bible translation of Isaiah 43:25 says:
“But I, yes I, am the one who takes care of your sins—that's what I do. I don't keep a list of your sins.”
How can God bring up your past sins. . .if He doesn’t even remember them or keep a list of them?
God will not bring up your past. . .but the enemy will. But he can only get away with it if you let him. That’s why you have to forget the past and move forward.
Philippians 3:13-15 in the New King James Version says:
“. . .forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.”
So it’s time to get rid of things that old, borrowed and blue. . .so God can move you out of your comfort zone into something new.
Isaiah 43:19 in the New Living Translation says:
“For I am about to do something new. See, I have already begun! Do you not see it?
I will make a pathway through the wilderness. I will create rivers in the dry wasteland.”
God can’t do something new. . .as long as you’re staying where you are.
“A ship in a harbor is safe, but that’s not what a ship is built for.” Anonymous
One more thing, it’s a foolish person who does the same thing over And over again expecting a different result.
4. Good Habits Will Move You Up and Out...Bad Habits Will Bring You Down
What is a habit? It is simply something you do so often that it becomes easy. In other words, it’s a behavior that you keep repeating.
Negative habits breed negative consequences….successful habits create positive rewards.
I want you to ponder this question. . .think about it before you answer. Maybe even write down several possibilities and then rank them in importance as they relate to helping you fulfill your vision and achieve your goals. Here’s the question:
What one habit would you like to have more than anything else?
Job 22:26 in the Amplified Bible says:
“You shall also decide and decree a thing, and it shall be established for you; and the light [of God's favor] shall shine upon your ways.”
The first step to establishing a new habit is: Make A Decision—purpose in your heart that you’re going to start acting in a specific way 100% of the time.
The second step is to simply act in that specific way for 21 days in a row. Work at it… don’t give up when you aren’t perfect…practice until you are perfect. Studies show that if you do something for 21 days in a row. . .it becomes a habit.
Success is a habit. Mediocrity and failure are habits. A positive mental attitude is a habit. Debt Free Living is a habit. Exercise is a habit. Not exercising is a habit.
Everything you’re doing in your life right now, you’re in the habit of doing. But by the same token, what you’re not doing right now, you’re in the habit of not doing. And the only way to change a habit of not doing something is to start doing it.
You have to make a decision to change. It will take effort on your part.
Create the right habits and you’ll move out of your comfort zone in that area.
5. Maybe You Need Somebody Different In Your Foxhole
If you want to break free from your comfort zone. . .you need to break free from some of the people you’ve been hanging around with.
Make no mistake. . .your attitude, speech and behavior are directly affected by your friends. If they’re comfortable in the their comfort zone. . .they’re not going to do anything to move.
When you’re in the midst of a battle and someone yells “incoming” it’s important to know who’s in the foxhole with you.
I Corinthians 15:33
“Don’t be fooled by those who say such things, for “bad company corrupts good character.”
Do your friends encourage, discourage and/or ignore your dreams, hopes and plans for the future?
In the game of life. . .you don’t need anyone holding you back as you seek to break free from your comfort zone.
Holding is a penalty is football and it should be in living your life as well.
Job 12:4 in the New Living Translation says:
“Yet my friends laugh at me, for I call on God and expect an answer. I am a just and blameless man, yet they laugh at me.”
Make no mistake if your friends are laughing at those who want more out of life and/or they’re happy where they are. . .you can be certain they’ll never do anything to help you break free of your comfort zone.
You’re friends are either empowering and encouraging you. . .or they’re not. If not, you need to find friends who will.
Get a sheet of paper and write down the following information about your seven closest friends. This exercise will tell you who will be of value in helping you move out of your comfort zone.
Friendship is a mutually beneficial relationship. And I emphasize the word beneficial. If not, something is out of balance.
What does this person add to my life? Am I free to add to their life as well?
What's the greatest negative influence this person has on my life?
What's the last positive idea, scripture or thought this person shared with me?
Do we motivate each other to be all we can be in God?
If you plan to leave your comfort zone. . .it’s a fact, most of your friends would rather stay where they are. . .than move out or up.
6. Ignorance is inactive while stupid is as stupid does.
If you’re living in a comfort zone. . .it’s because you don’t know something or you’re not willing to do something with what you know.
Romans 1:13 says:
“Now I would not have you ignorant, brethren, that oftentimes I purposed to come unto you, (but was let hitherto,) that I might have some fruit among you also, even as among other Gentiles.”
According to Strong’s Concordance the word ignorance means: “not knowing.”
Simply said, ignorance is not knowing the facts.
Now, stupid is knowing the facts but choosing not to do anything with or about that information and insight.
Benjamin Franklin said, “We are all born ignorant, but one must work hard to remain stupid.”
There is a cure for ignorance. . .get knowledge.
If you lack knowledge, it's your fault because knowledge is available.
Psalm 119:66 in the New Living Translation says:
“I believe in your commands; now teach me good judgment and knowledge.”
It’s been said that if you don’t like where you are in life. . .chances are. . .there’s something you don’t know yet.
How do you get knowledge and wisdom? You see them.
Proverbs 4:7 says:
“Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding.”
Increased wisdom propels a person out of their comfort zone.
Let me ask you seven questions. . .and just write now yes or no.
Do you read your Bible on a daily basis?
Do you take notes on what you’ve read?
Does the Holy Spirit bring things to your remembrance as you read and take notes?
Are you reading any book any than the Bible at this very moment?
Is the book motivational, inspirational or practical?
Are you taking notes as you read this book?
Is the Holy Spirit stirring things in you as you read the book?
If you answered “no” to more than one of those questions. . .you must enjoy living in your comfort zone.
Get wisdom. . .move from where you are to where God wants you to be. . .and that most assuredly, is not your comfort zone.
7. Keep Yourself Motivated During Your Comfort Zone Exodus
What will it take to keep you motivated on your move from mediocrity to success?
. . .from just getting by to more than enough?
. . .from average to excellence?
. . .from your comfort zone to moving from glory to glory in God’s kingdom?
Are you more motivated by visual images of a goal or dream that you’re seeking to attain or fulfill?
Is there a picture that motivates you? What is it? Is the picture or photograph in a prominent place in your office or home?
Are you motivated by a person? Is there someone who motivates you. . .a mentor. There are people who speak into my life and a word from them is also extremely motivational.
Find out how and what motivates you. . .it will help motivate you out of your comfort zone.
One more thing, you need to laugh along the way.
Proverbs 17:22 says:
“A merry heart doeth good like a medicine.”
The late Phyllis Diller, actress and standup comic, one said:
“A smile is a curve that sets everything straight.”
By the way…never marry a person who can’t make you laugh.
Laughter is the medicine which allows us to press forward after we make mistakes.
There’s another reason. . .you need to learn to laugh. . .because that’s what you’re going to be doing. . .as you’re leaving your comfort zone with the enemy of your future now in your rearview mirror.BLOG COMMENTS POWERED BY DISQUS